A high-value woman is not just highly sought after by men but is someone who knows her inherent value and can hold her own, regardless of what people say or do to her.
Before you pursue her, let me tell you that she'd been through a lot, that's why loving her will test your character. Knowing her best and worst attitude will make you see how vulnerable she is. You have to be strong enough to handle it. But once she loves fully, she will pour out everything wholeheartedly and passionately. She just needs someone who will stay and listen even in the chaos and in the silence. Because again, loving means staying in the good and even in the worst time.
Before you pursue her, she doesn't believe that you can complete her. She knows that she is already made whole by her Creator. She's not lacking anymore because of the One who loved her first. That's why before you pour out that love, make sure that you're not just lonely or empty trying to fill that void in your heart in a relationship.
Before you pursue her, know that she's afraid to take risk again. She built high walls that no one can climb, her heart was guarded fully. She experienced a lot of pain from the past, that's why she's so afraid to be betrayed and to waste her time again. She needs constant reassurance for her heart was broken and until now she's still in the process of healing those wounds. She might have been physically, emotionally and verbally abused before, so please understand if she's so sensitive about every little thing.
Before you pursue her, there will be moments when she doesn't even know why she's arguing with you. She can be a ray of sunshine today, and then a raging storm tomorrow. She will have a roller coaster of emotions when she has her mood swings. She will try to insist that she is right, even if she's wrong. There will be times when she just wanted to shut the doors out, but still wait for you to come home.
Before you pursue her, she wants clarity before intimacy—lead her in marriage not in confusion. She's tired of playing games, she'd been trying to save her heart because she doesn't settle for less than what she deserves anymore. She has a lot of trust issues. I know it hurts knowing that she isn't capable of trusting you fully yet. Most of the time, she wants to feel appreciated always because she knows the feeling of being rejected and left out.
Yet she knows her worth now. So before you pursue her, be brave!
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